this is a sad story i heard from a gal...what she said realy hits on my heart,..somehow, her words click sth that i have in my mind..i hope she is gonna be fine soon........
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Once Upon a Time
Once upon a time theres a girl who likes this guy so much,
that shes willing to wait him for a whole year, till he finished his military duty.
And then after that one year of waiting, she thought they could finally have some time together,
but things didnt go the way she expected.
The guy had two jobs and one exam to prepare, that made him so busy didnt have much time for her.
So she kept on waiting and fondly imagined "maybe, we could have some more time together afterwards".
Again, things didnt turn out the way she wanted.
He had a busy internship in summer and also participated in several graduate school projects.
But this time its not just about not having enuogh time together,
the truth was he doesnt like her much anymore.
Quote from the guy " I dont know how to love you as the way i did before, were just not right for each other."
So they broke up.
What a lovely story.
Yeh,its a heart-breaking moment for the stupid girl. (Not sure about how did the guy feel)
And then this girl was too sad that she couldnt bare it,
so she went to the guy asking for a second chance, the guy didnt want to see her so so depressed,
so they went back together pretending nothing happened before.
Thats how the "Bad Play"(歹戲拖棚) began.
Someone warned the girl "bad play wont work,its just waste of time" before,
but she insisted to keep the relationship going, she believes she could change herself and make the guy like her more.
After 3 months of "bad play",
hes still busy, even busier than before;
shes still waiting, childishly thinking he would put her on his priority someday.
One day, the girl realized, she could wait for no more.
Shes leaving to the Europe soon so she wants more time with him, but the guy acts like its none of his business.
School and career comes first;
other friends comes second;
GIRLFRIEND?...Ummm, when i have time ill take care of that.
She said "Whats gonna happen between us after i go abroad?"
He replied "I dont know, just let it be."
One night,
she said "Lets break up. Im never on your priority list, and you think youve done enough for me."
he said "If thats what you want, okay lets break up."